
Strategic Instructor: TalkingParents, Soberlink, BARK, Divorce.com
Why Choose The Divorce Survival Guide for Moms: Narcissist Edition?
With over 8 years of experience as a divorce coach and high-conflict co-parenting specialist, Tessa also serves as a Strategic Instructor for brands such as TalkingParents, Soberlink, BARK, and Divorce.com.
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“Finally have the tools to manage my ex and protect my kids.”
- Sarah M.
“Helped me end financial control and negotiate a fair, confident settlement.”
- Kristen H.
“Years of chaos ended—this gave me peace and control again.”
- Jessica L.
“Transformed post-divorce chaos into calm co-parenting and
kid-focused peace.”
- Lisa P.
If you're a mom caught in a nightmare divorce—walking on eggshells, emotionally exhausted, manipulated at every turn, and terrified of losing your children—you are not alone. I know this battle, not just as a coach, but because I’ve lived it.
There was a time when I was laying awake at 3 a.m. with my heart pounding, thinking the same thought you might be having right now:
What if I lose my kids?
I’d followed every rule, hired a top-rated attorney, and tried to stay calm—but still, I felt like I was constantly being outmaneuvered by someone who didn’t care about the rules, the truth, or the damage he was causing.
My ex weaponized the legal system, turned parenting into a battlefield, and made me feel like one wrong move could cost me everything. I know how relentless and isolating it feels—like you’re stuck in an invisible war no one else understands.
And that’s why I built this course. Not from theory, but from lived experience. Through heartbreak, trial, and tens of thousands of dollars in legal fees, I had to learn how to protect my children, my peace, and my future. Along the way, I was fortunate to work alongside and learn from some of the best: forensic accountants, divorce attorneys, child psychologists, trauma therapists, mediation and deposition prep coaches, and even hostage and negotiation experts who helped me understand how to communicate with someone who thrives on control and chaos.
The strategies I teach aren’t just ideas—they are hard-won, real-world tools refined through my personal journey and shaped by experts who’ve helped thousands of families navigate high-conflict divorce.
You don’t have to keep living in survival mode. There is a path through this. One that brings clarity, strategy, and strength—and shields your kids from the emotional fallout.
And I’m here to walk that path with you.
😩 "I'm not strong enough to beat this narcissist."
😩 "The court will never believe me."
😩 "I'm going to lose my children forever."
😩 "I'm completely alone in this fight."
📚 How to present evidence that actually matters in court
❓ What your narcissistic ex's next move will be
🗣️ How to communicate in a way that protects your image as the safe, stable parent
🤫 The Terrifying Cost of Silence and Inaction
💔 Losing custody of your precious children
💸 Throwing away $100,000s in legal fees with nothing to show
🚨 Your children suffering long-term emotional trauma
😱 Being financially destroyed and left with no resources
🔗 Potentially setting your children up to repeat toxic relationship patterns
This Isn't Just About You.
It's About Your Children's Future.
You Don't Have to Fight This Alone.
There is a way to turn this around. There is a path to protecting your children, securing your future, and breaking free from this nightmare. I'm going to show you exactly how...
—a powerful, step-by-step system that brings my most effective tools and expert-backed strategies to more women, at a fraction of the cost of private coaching.
Imagine you're a ship captain navigating through a hurricane of legal chaos, with a narcissistic ex trying to sink your vessel at every turn. The waves of manipulation crash around you, and you're desperately trying to keep your children safe—but you're fighting this storm with nothing but good intentions and hope.
There is a better way.
Your Strategic System for Successfully Navigating a High-Conflict Divorce & Co-Parenting
The Cold Hard Truth Is This...
Here's Why This Matters
Most moms fighting a narcissistic ex are playing checkers while he's playing chess. They react emotionally to continued abuse and the threat of losing their children. The Divorce Survival Guide for Moms: Narcissist Edition isn't just another divorce strategy—it's a proven roadmap that teaches you how to…
In This Course, You'll Learn How To:
💡 Transform emotional responses into strategic documentation
🧠 Anticipate and neutralize manipulative tactics before they happen
👩⚖️ Present yourself as the calm, consistent parent
the court respects
📂 Gather and organize evidence that speaks louder than words in court
🛡️ Shield your children from the conflict of divorce and narcissistic abuse
I Know What You Might Be Thinking...
“I shouldn’t have to do all this. The truth should be enough.”
The court doesn’t care who is right. They care who looks credible.
They care who comes prepared, who’s calm under pressure, and who keeps the focus on the kids.
You might think you can “just get through this” with your current approach.
Real Stories, Real Transformations
"With the Trauma Bond and financial planning tools, I was able to rebuild my identity post-divorce. Now I am living the life I have always wanted."
- Mae

"I used the negotiation guide to get exactly what I wanted and walked out with more than I could have imagined!"
- Alicia

""I used the boundary setting tools to transform my co-parenting dynamic and shield my children from the conflict. I couldn't have asked for more!"
- Anna

"" I created a peaceful home for my kids. I can finally sleep through the night."
- Carla

Module 1:
Understand narcissistic abuse and finally break free from the trauma bond.
🧠 Spot high-conflict behavior patterns that keep you stuck
🚩 Recognize emotional manipulation in co-parenting
✂️ Disarm control tactics before they escalate
💔 Break the trauma bond with proven tools
🛑 Set boundaries that protect your children, your peace, and your power
Module 2:
Communicate like a pro—even when your ex is trying to push your buttons.
🧾 Use the KIND Method to keep every message court-safe
🧘♀️ Stop emotional spirals and take back control of the conversation
⚖️ Respond to false accusations with calm, confident clarity that protects you in court
⏰ Create boundaries around your time and energy with “office hours”
✍️ Practice rewriting real texts to stay composed and in control
Module 3: Protect Your Kids
Shield your children from the conflict—and help them thrive, no matter what.
🧩 Tell the difference between alienation and abuse-by-proxy
🌲 Use the Boundary Decision Tree to protect parenting time
🔐 Learn how to parallel parent with strength, not struggle
📝 Add must-have protections to your parenting plan
🧸 Support your child through transitions and emotional fallout
📚 Access a library list of recommended divorce books for kids, including your own digital copy of Stella’s Two Homes
Module 4:
Upper Hand in Court
🗂️ Present organized, persuasive evidence with the
Evidence Matrix
🧊 Respond to false claims with the Four C’s: Calm, Credibility, Counter Evidence, Collateral Contacts
🧾 Create a counter-evidence campaign with outside sources
🤖 Use AI tools to write compelling, judge-friendly testimony
🧍♀️ Stay composed under pressure and look like the stable parent that you are
Module 5:
Negotiate with confidence, strategy, and leverage—without getting played.
👥 Build (or train) your dream legal team using the
Attorney Interview Guide
🎯 Use negotiation tactics inspired by hostage negotiators
🃏 Identify your leverage and use it without showing your hand
📑 Prepare for mediation with scripts, worksheets, and planning tools
🛡️ Learn how to hold your boundaries and still sound reasonable
Module 6: Financial Fitness
for Moms
Take control of your money and
secure your financial future post-divorce.
📋 Get clear on what support you’re owed and how to get it
💰 Use a simple budgeting tool to plan your post-divorce life
🔍 Learn how to track assets and uncover hidden income
⚖️ Strategically divide assets to protect what’s yours
🤝 Handle shared expenses without endless arguments
💡 Learn smart ways to cut legal costs and protect your future
Bonus Module:
Write powerful messages and testimony—without the stress or overthinking.
🤖 Use AI to write polished court testimony and co-parenting messages
🧘♀️ Avoid emotional bait and stay clear, neutral, and on-message
📥 Follow easy templates to write exactly what you want to say (the right way)
⏳ Save time, energy, and sanity with tech that helps you sound calm and credible
What Can
The Divorce Survival Guide for Moms: Narcissist Edition
Do For You?
This isn't just another online course. It's a complete transformation system—designed specifically for moms divorcing or co-parenting with a narcissist—so you can stop surviving and finally start building the life you and your children deserve.
💸 From Financial Fear to Financial Stability
👩⚖️ From Custody Anxiety to Custody Confidence
🧠 From Emotional Chaos to Strategic Clarity
The court doesn’t reward emotion—it rewards strategy. You’ll learn how to respond to manipulation with calm, professional communication that protects your reputation and disarms your ex. The KIND Method alone will change the way you show up in every interaction and you will take communication to the next level with the Neutralize the Narcissist Communication Guide.
🛑 From Feeling Powerless to Taking Back Control
You’ll stop reacting and start leading. With tools like The Boundary Decision Tree, AI-powered messaging templates, and negotiation guides, you’ll finally have control over your responses, your outcomes, and your next steps.
👧 From Guilt and Fear to Protecting Your Kids Like a Pro
🕊️ From Burned Out to Unshakably Peaceful
You don’t have to stay in the spin cycle of fear, legal stress, and emotional exhaustion. This course helps you get organized, get empowered, and get free. It’s not just about surviving court—it’s about building a life that’s finally yours.
Whether you’re terrified of losing custody, drowning in legal fees, or simply exhausted from trying to do this alone—you don’t have to anymore. This is your roadmap out.
🔒 You’ll walk away with peace of mind, a strategic edge, and the tools to protect what matters most: your kids, your future, and your sanity.
You don’t have to be currently in the courtroom trenches for this to be relevant—because the real battle often begins after the papers are signed.
Maybe you’re already divorced, but the conflict didn’t end.
Maybe you share kids with someone who continues to manipulate, gaslight, or sabotage your peace.
Maybe you were never married, but you’re locked in a high-conflict co-parenting situation that feels just as toxic and legally complex.
This is not a “divorce course.”
It’s a strategic survival system for moms navigating custody, communication, and ongoing conflict with a narcissistic ex— regardless of your marital status or where you are in the timeline.
In fact, many of the women who see the biggest breakthroughs in this course are:
If you’ve ever thought:
“I thought it would get better after the divorce—but now I feel more trapped than ever.”
You are exactly who this course was created for.
Because divorce doesn’t always end the abuse.
But with the right strategies, tools, and support—you can end the chaos.
This isn’t about legal paperwork.
This is about protecting your kids, reclaiming your power, and becoming the calm, stable leader your family needs… starting today.
$4,000
The Narcissist’s Playbook - Predict and counter your ex’s next move with confidence—no more emotional ambushes.
The Evidence Matrix - Present clear, organized proof in court that highlights your child’s need for protection—without ever saying the word “narcissist.”
Neutralize the Narcissist Communication Guide - Shut down drama and stay in control of the narrative with high-conflict communication scripts that work.
Parenting Plan Quick Guide - Choose the best plan for your family and shield your child from ongoing conflict—skip the guesswork.
What to Gather Checklist (High Net-Worth Edition) - Know exactly what documents to prepare for financial negotiations—avoid delays, oversights, and costly mistakes.
Narcissist Negotiation Roadmap + Field Guide - Walk into mediation or court knowing your leverage and how to use it—secure the outcome you deserve.
Comprehensive Family Budget Tool (High Net-Worth Edition) - Gain control of your post-divorce finances with budgeting templates and lifestyle calculators designed for your new reality.
Attorney Interview Questions + Custody Battle Resource Guide - Build your dream legal team with the right professionals and the right strategy from day one.
Stella’s Two Homes Digital Children’s Book - Help your child feel safe, seen, and emotionally supported in their two-home reality.
Exclusive Access to the Mama Divorce Support Group - Connect with a judgment-free community of moms who truly get it—because they’ve lived it too.
Plus, because we believe in overdelivering, we've included a few more bonuses not even mentioned here to get you on the road to personal success following divorce!
Your Burning Questions Answered: Your Roadmap to Divorce Empowerment Starts Here.
This course is your lifeline if you're a mom navigating the treacherous waters of divorce with a high-conflict or narcissistic ex. Whether you're just beginning your journey, deep in the trenches of custody battles, or well on the other side of separation/divorce, you're exactly where you need to be. We've designed this program as your strategic playbook—giving you the tools, confidence, and peace of mind to protect what matters most: you and your children. No matter where you are in your divorce process, this course meets you exactly where you are and guides you to where you want to be.
Absolutely! Divorce doesn't end when the papers are signed—especially with a high-conflict ex. Many of our clients are already divorced but still wrestling with ongoing communication challenges, boundary issues, and emotional fallout. This course is your secret weapon for managing post-divorce dynamics, setting rock-solid boundaries, and creating a stable environment for your children. You'll gain strategies to neutralize conflict, enforce parenting plans, and reclaim your peace—no matter how long you've been divorced.
100%. Whether you were married or not, the tools in this course are designed to help you navigate high-conflict separation and co-parenting. The legal paperwork may look different, but the emotional warfare, manipulation tactics, and custody challenges are often exactly the same. This course gives you the strategies to communicate effectively, protect your children, and stay one step ahead—no matter what your relationship history looks like. If you're co-parenting with a narcissist, you're in the right place.
Not at all—this is your strategic partner to work alongside your legal team. Think of this course as your divorce defense academy. We'll teach you how to communicate effectively, document critically, and advocate for yourself with laser-sharp clarity. Most attorneys actually love when clients take this course because it saves them time and you money. You'll walk into every interaction—legal or personal—more prepared, more confident, and more strategic.
Lifetime access means you're never alone in this journey. You'll have unlimited access to all course materials, downloadable resources, and bonuses. Need a refresher before mediation? Struggling with a communication challenge? Want to revisit a specific strategy? Everything is at your fingertips, whenever you need it. This isn't just a course—it's your ongoing support system.
100% online and completely flexible. The moment you enroll, you'll get immediate access to all 7 core modules and bonus materials in our easy to navigate client portal. Whether you want to dive in over a weekend or take a more measured approach, this course adapts to your life. Bite-sized lessons, downloadable templates, and step-by-step guidance ensure you can learn and implement at your own pace—no overwhelm, just empowerment.
While we always recommend having a highly skilled attorney —this course is not a substitute for legal counsel—we know that’s not realistic for everyone. Many of our clients have successfully used these tools while self-representing in court. This program gives you a strategic roadmap to advocate for yourself, protect your children, and make smart legal moves—without relying on expensive hourly advice. It’s designed to help you save money, reduce stress, and stay prepared every step of the way.
We created this course FOR overwhelmed moms. Every single module is broken down into digestible, actionable steps that feel supportive, not suffocating. With downloadable templates, clear guidance, and a community of support, you'll transform from feeling stuck to feeling strategic. This isn't about adding pressure—it's about lifting it off your shoulders.
This isn’t a generic divorce course or a single-subject deep dive—it’s a holistic survival guide designed specifically for moms dealing with narcissistic abuse and high-conflict co-parenting. While most resources focus on just one piece of the puzzle—like communication or legal prep—we address the full picture: strategy, boundaries, evidence, negotiation, parenting, and emotional recovery. We dive deep into the manipulation tactics, legal traps, and psychological warfare that typical courses ignore. Built from real-world experience and used with private clients, this system actually works—and it’s trusted by major platforms because of the results it delivers.
Peace is exactly what we're after. This course teaches you how to create boundaries, neutralize conflict, and protect your emotional well-being—all while staying legally prepared. You'll learn to shift from reactive to proactive, keeping your focus squarely on your children's best interests. We're not about escalating conflict; we're about strategically dismantling it.
You're never alone. Our private Mama Divorce Support Group provides real-time, judgment-free support from women who truly understand your journey. Ask questions, share victories, get peer support—all in a safe, understanding community. This isn't just a course; it's a lifeline.
You've also got technical support access through email at [email protected].
Your future—and your children's future—is waiting. These strategies, these tools, this support? They're your ticket to reclaiming your life. The only question left is: Are you ready to transform your divorce journey from overwhelming to empowered?
Enroll now and let's get started!
At Kind Mama LLC, we believe in full transparency and want you to have clear expectations about what this course can and cannot do. The Divorce Survival Guide for Moms: Narcissist Edition is an educational program designed to provide strategic guidance, emotional support, and actionable tools for navigating high-conflict divorce and co-parenting situations. However, every individual’s circumstances are unique, and outcomes will vary.
This program does not provide legal, financial, or psychological advice. I am not an attorney, therapist, or financial advisor. While the strategies shared have helped many clients, this course is not a substitute for professional legal representation, mental health support, or financial counseling. Always consult with licensed professionals before making decisions related to custody, court filings, financial settlements, or mental health.
No specific results are promised or guaranteed. The outcomes you may experience—such as saving money on legal fees, improving co-parenting communication, securing a better custody arrangement, or organizing compelling court documentation—depend on a variety of factors, including your personal effort, the specifics of your case, and how consistently you apply the strategies provided. Past client results do not guarantee similar results for you.
By participating in this program, you accept full responsibility for your own decisions, actions, and outcomes. Kind Mama LLC and its affiliates are not liable for any direct or indirect losses or damages resulting from the use of this course or its materials.
If you are currently in an abusive or dangerous situation, please seek immediate help through law enforcement, legal professionals, or domestic violence organizations.
We recommend you review this disclaimer with your attorney or legal advisor before making any decisions based on the content within this program.
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